About 30 before 30

This blog is many things. It is our thoughts and dreams, but most importantly it is our stories. We’ve struggled a lot in life. We’re still struggling in some way. For those that are just beginning their journey, we hope our stories help you write yours. We do cover a lot of topics ranging from […]

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#14 Write down as much as I remember from my childhood

This is about your childhood. The innocent times when you had your first sleepover and flashed an empty street because no one was around at the time. Or the epic time when your six grade teacher had a stapler stuck to his crotch. (True Story)

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Cherry Blossoms

The significance of the cherry blossom tree in Japanese culture goes back hundreds of years. In their country, the cherry blossom represents the fragility and the beauty of life. It’s a reminder that life is almost overwhelmingly beautiful but that it is also tragically short.

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Sorry Not Sorry

For as long as I can remember I have apologized for the tiniest inconvenience I might’ve caused. I dropped a toy, sorry. I accidentally touched someone’s hand, sorry. They tell me not to apologize, sorry. It was an awful habit. I even apologized for shit I didn’t do. I was so fucking annoying. Although I […]

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The Helpful and the Helpless

Once upon a time there was a girl, who dreamed of life as a stay-at-home mom. She wanted to be taken care of and loved. She wondered how she could make her dream come true. “I know!” She exclaimed happily, “The next prince I meet I’ll have his child. Then he’ll have to marry me […]

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My Bullied Little Monster

August is coming up and with it the first day of school. Apart from the agony of buying school supplies that they’ll lose in their first week there also lurks the minor bully. With all the sad things going on in the world you’d think that schools would be spared. I mean you get to […]

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Sex and the City

I’m not sure how many of my fans have heard of Carrie Bradshaw and her sexy journalism. I just recently began S1: E1. I’ve only ever watched the movie with my eldest sister who was a fangirl at the time. Since I am a single-reaching-thirty-type of woman I decided to watch it and see if […]

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Getting the Promotion

Burn bra’s not bridges.
If you’re going to look for other jobs so that you can scare them with the old ‘I-got-a-job-offer-so-you-better-counter-or-you’ll-lose-me’ tactic, do it in a way that won’t compromise your relationship with your current job. Yeah, you hate the job, the people, or your boss. Or maybe you hate all of it, you still want to be cordial. Ever have a situation where you cuss someone out and then a few days later you have to ask them for a favor? It’s like that. Always leave in amicable terms. Or fucking try to at least. You can look for a job and keep it under your hat. This way if the negotiation goes wrong you have a plan b.

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